Ask The Rabbi 15 November 1997 Issue #167 (Parashat Vayera) =========================================================================== This Issue Contains: 1. A Mount of Names 4. Public Domain 2. A Verse to Death 5. Yiddle Riddle 3. Hungarian Bat-Mitzvah =========================================================================== New Feature! Fun for the Whole Family! "Yossi & Co." will explore the weekly Parsha in a forum that everyone can enjoy. Come and join him at http://www.ohr.org.il/yossi =========================================================================== Mr. Leo Garfinkel wrote: >Dear Rabbi, > >What are the seven names of Mount Sinai and what do they mean? * * * * * * * * * * * * Dear Mr. Leo Garfinkel, According to the Midrash, Har Sinai has seven other names. All together it has eight names, as follows: 1. Har Sinai -- from the word sneh -- "bush." This refers to the burning bush on Har Sinai. Also, Sinai is related to the word sinah - "hatred" and "rejection." By giving the Torah to human beings instead of to the angels, G-d thereby rejected the angels. 2. Har Ha-Elokim -- "G-d's Mountain," because G-d revealed His Torah there to the Jewish people. Through the Torah, the Jews become a G-dly people. 3. Beit Imi -- "My Mother's House." By accepting the Torah the Jews were born as a nation. 4. Har Chorev, from the word "cherev" -- "sword." The Torah invests special Torah courts, sanhedrin, with authority to try capital cases. 5. Har Chemed -- "Desirable Mountain." G-d desired Mount Sinai as the place from which to give the most desirable of treasures, the Torah. 6. Har Bashan from the word "shen" -- "tooth." Sustenance and blessing come to the world in the merit of Torah study and observance. Just as teeth prepare the food for digestion, so too the Torah brings nourishment to the world. 7. Har Gavnonim, from the word "gevina" -- "cheese." Cheese is a metaphor for purity, probably because it's made from pure white milk. 8. Har Moriah -- "Mountain of Teaching," where G-d taught Moses the Torah. Sources: o Shmot Rabbah 2 o Bamidbar Rabbah 1 o Shir Hashirim Rabbah 8 *******************************ADVERTISEMENT***************************** * Spend this Coming Winter Break in Israel for as little as $599 * * (including airfare from New York) * * with the JEWISH LEARNING EXCHANGE * ************************************************************************* -> JLE Israel Winter Seminar '97/'98 -> 3 weeks of Touring, Exploring and Studying Judaism and Israel -> December 22 - January 12 -> for Jewish men between the ages of 19 and 30 with demonstrated academic achievement and a sincere motivation to explore their roots. 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Bye and Thanks! * * * * * * * * * * * Dear Ricardo, Allah is Arabic for the Hebrew word "El." "El" means the Almighty. The Talmud (Bava Batra 15b) asks your second question: Who wrote the last eight verses of the Torah which describe Moses's death? The Talmud offers two answers. According to one opinion, Joshua wrote them. According to the other opinion, Moses himself wrote them using tears instead of ink. After Moses died, Joshua traced over the letters with ink. Some explain the Talmud to mean that Moses wrote the last eight verses not with tears, but rather in a jumbled fashion. In Hebrew, the word for "tears" (dima) is spelled the same way as the word "jumbled" (dema). That is, Moses wrote the last eight verses with no spaces to differentiate between the end of one word and the beginning of the next. It was left to Joshua to split up the words. =========================================================================== Laszlo Hunyadi from Hungary wrote: >Dear Rabbi, > >We, from the Orthodox Congregation of Debrecen, Hungary, have a very >urgent question. Nine of our girls are going to have their Bat Mitzvah >celebration on Sunday, September 28. Since we have not had such a >celebration in the past decade or so, we are not quite sure about the way >this celebration is supposed to be carried out. > >Some people suggest that the girls make an oath rather than a vow saying >that they will be loyal to the Jewish People and the Torah. We do not yet >know where this oath will take place, in front of the Torah or in a >separate room. We have doubt about the halachic propriety of this oath. >Since we have no acting rabbi at this moment, we hope to receive the >proper answer from you. Thank you very much, > >Laszlo Hunyadi, one of the parents and Nathan and Kati Asmoucha, shlichim >from Jerusalem * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Dear Laszlo Hunyadi and Nathan and Kati Asmoucha, First, a heartfelt Mazel Tov on your daughter's Bat Mitzva! May she and her friends continue to be sources of pride for the entire Jewish People! Having sought advice from distinguished Rabbis here in Jerusalem, I recommend that you hold the celebration in a hall, and that one of the community members say something appropriate on behalf of the congregation, and one, some or all the girls deliver a short speech about the Torah, its commandments and ideals. In general we refrain from making any vow or oath, because making a vow or oath is considered an extremely serious matter. Therefore, I don't think either a vow or an oath is appropriate here. Laszlo Hunyadi replied: Dear Rabbi, Thank you so much for your thorough investigation and the advice you have given. 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