SEASONS of the MOON
The Jewish Year seen through its months
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Kislev 5759 /  November 20 - December 19, 1998
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THIS MONTH'S SIGN

Keshet / Sagittarius

Kislev's sign is the Bow (Keshet in Hebrew).  At the beginning of Kislev 
the first rainbow was seen after the Flood.  The rainbow symbolizes the 
pact that G-d made with Noach never again to destroy the world with water.  
The symbolism of the bow also echoes the military victory of Chanuka -- the 
bow of purity of Israel vanquishing the bow of impurity of Greece.

	Mystically, the bow symbolizes the power of prayer:  The closer the 
bow-string is drawn downward, the higher the arrow soars skyward; so 
similarly, the deeper the source of a prayer, the higher it reaches into 
the heavens.

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THE HELPING HAND

Little children find it very difficult to do things by themselves.  They 
need a constant helping hand, constant encouragement.  They can be bold, 
but only when Daddy is close by.  When he's out of sight, tears quickly 
replace bravado until once again they feel the hand that comforts.

	As babies, our first faltering steps are greeted by parental glee.  
Hands reach out to guide our every step.  When we stumble, Mom and Dad are 
always there to stop us from falling.

	There comes a day, however, when we stumble, but we find no helping 
hand.  We fall to the ground.  Tears fill our eyes and dismay fills our 
hearts.  We look around in amazement.  "Where are you?... Daddy?  Are you 
still there?"

	Only from the moment our parents let us fall, can we learn to walk by 
ourselves.  Only from the moment that our parents are prepared to let us 
become adults can we stop being children.  If, as parents, we never give 
our children the possibility of falling down, they will never learn to 
stand by themselves.  Of course, to everything there is a season.  
Everything has to be in its time.  If a child is challenged beyond his 
capabilities he may assume that he will never be able to achieve what is 
being asked of him, and suffer from this negative programming for life.

A challenge in its correct time is always an opportunity to grow, an 
opportunity to get to know who we really are.

The festival of Chanuka celebrates two events:  The defeat of the 
vast Selucid Greek army by a handful of Jews, and the miracle of the one 
flask of pure oil which burned for eight days in the Menorah.  If you think 
about it, our joy at Chanuka should center on the deliverance from our 
enemies.  However, our main focus is the miracle of the lights.  Why should 
this be?

	Chanuka took place after the last of the Prophets -- Chagai, Zecharia 
and Malachi -- had passed away.  When the prophets passed from this world, 
G-d no longer communicated directly with Man.  Suddenly, we were like 
children left alone in the dark.  The Parental Hand had gone.  With 
prophecy taken from the world, we would need to grow by ourselves, to 
become like adults.  No longer could we depend on G-d reaching down to us.  
Now, we would need to stretch our arms upward to G-d.  We had been given a 
chance to grow.  To find out who we were.  In the darkness of a world 
without prophecy, we would need to forge our connection with G-d in the 
furnace of our own hearts.

	But it's difficult.  Sometimes we feel "Daddy...where are you?  Are 
you still there?"  The heart grows a little cold with longing.  Sometimes 
we need a little extra help.

	The joy of Chanuka is not so much because we got what we prayed for, 
that we were delivered from the Greeks, but the fact that G-d let us know 
that He was still there.  He answered our prayers with a miracle.  In a 
world where spiritual decay had tainted the holiest places, a light burst 
forth in the center of the world to tell us that He was still there.  A 
light that told us that darkness had not extinguished the light.  It was 
only hiding it.

	G-d communicated to us through the darkness of a world without 
prophecy.  He let us know that He was still with us even in the dark.  Even 
though the channel of prophecy had fallen silent, our Father was still 
there, watching over us.  That little flask of oil would burn and burn.  It 
would burn not just for eight days.  It would burn for thousands of years.  
We would take those lights with us into the long, long night of exile, and 
we would know by the very fact of our survival against all odds that He was 
with us even in the darkest of nights.  He was always there.  He has always 
been there.

Sometimes it seems that the darkness cannot get any darker.

More Jews observe Chanuka than any other Jewish festival.  Those 
lights didn't burn for just eight days.  Those little lights have been 
burning for two thousand years.  However far someone may be from their 
Jewish roots, you can still find a Menorah burning in the window.  A little 
spark that lingers on.  A little holy spark hidden in the heart of a child.

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MY CHILD

My Child,
By the time you read this,
I may be well in a different world.
I wanted you to know
Of all the hopes
And all the prayers
that have ever left my lips.

But if the breath of time will allow
but one short message in a bottle,
you should know,
that of all the things I hope and pray
you should cherish the little candle
in your heart
and let it outshine all the darknesses.
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