Simcha's Torah Stories   
Parshas Mishpatim 5759  
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TURN IT AROUND

Hi, Avi!  How are you?

Fine, Chaim, thank G-d.  How are you?

The same, thank G-d.  Do you want to join us for a game of basketball?

Sure, Chaim.

Hi, Josh!  How are you?

Great, guys!  What's doing?

We're on our way to play basketball.  Do you want to come?

I can't right now.  Thanks for asking.  Have a good time.

On the way home from the basketball game . . .

Look, Avi, isn't that Josh?

Sure is.  And I think that's Aaron with him.  They're both walking behind 
Rabbi Finkel.  What are they doing?

It look's like they are both carrying a heavy load of books for Rabbi 
Finkel.  Come, let's go help them out.

You go help Josh, and I'll help Aaron.  I'd rather not help Josh.

Why not, Avi?

Do you want to know the truth, Chaim?

Of course.

I was really happy when Josh didn't want to play with us today.  The last 
few times we played basketball together, he was always banging into me and 
stepping on my feet.  It really bothers me.  Can't he be more careful?  He 
didn't even apologize.  I'd rather not help him carry the books.  I would 
rather help Aaron, my friend.

Avi, do you know that the Torah says to do exactly the opposite?

It can't be.

It's right in this week's Parsha, Mishpatim.

Really?  What does it say, Chaim?

When you see two people who need help, one is your friend and one is 
someone whom you feel badly towards, you should go help the one you're not 
friendly with first.

But I want to help my friend.  I like him.  I don't like the other guy.

That's exactly the point, Avi.  We have a mitzvah in the Torah to love all 
of our brethren.  That includes even those who treat us not so nicely.  The 
Torah is teaching us how to turn around your bad feelings toward that 
person.  If you help him, if you give to him, you will come to like him.

How does that work?

The more you give to him, the more you feel for him.  You identify more 
closely with him because you have put effort into him.

Kind of like a project.

In a way, but much more.  The biggest proof is our parents.  They love us 
so much because they have put so much effort into raising us.

I see the point, Chaim.  I guess the hardest part is to get started.

It's like jumping into the pool, Avi.  Just hold your breath and take the 
plunge.

Okay, here goes.  Hey Josh, can I help you with those heavy books?

Why that is so nice of you Avi.  I guess I took too many books.  You know 
Avi, I have been meaning to tell you what a good basketball player you are.  
You are so graceful, you never bump into anybody or step on their feet.  I 
wish I could play like you.

Maybe I can help you play better, Josh.  Together we can turn it around.

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Simcha's Quiz Question of the Week

One train leaves from NYC heading towards LA at 100 mph.  Three hours 
later, a train leaves from LA heading towards NYC at 200 MPH.  Assume there 
are exactly 2000 miles between LA and NYC. When they meet, which train is 
closer to NYC?

Write Simcha with the correct answer at simcha_b@mail.netvision.net.il


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