Kriat Shema Al Hamitah (Part 12)
“The amount of sleep required by the average person is five minutes more.”
Wilson Mizener – American Playwright
“Kriat Shema al Hamitah” continues with chapter 91 from Tehillim: “One who dwells in the refuge of the Most High – shall dwell in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Hashem: He is my shelter and my fortress, my
The Talmud (Shavuot 15b) relates that Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi would recite chapter 91 of Tehillim before going to sleep. Our Sages call this chapter “Shir shel Pegaim – Song Against Evil Occurrences” because it is a request that Hashem protect us from the destructive powers and influences that constantly surround us and try to overwhelm us. When we are asleep, we are not conscious of the potential dangers around us so we recite chapter 91 as a protection.
Rashi, in describing what it means to “dwell in the refuge of the Most High,” writes that if a person takes shelter under the “wings” of Hashem – that is, if a person truly believes that Hashem will protect them – they will be shielded by Hashem.
Rashi’s beautiful portrayal of living with Hashem always reminds me of a lady who lived nearby to us. She settled in Israel as a widow in her late eighties, living alone but close to her son and his family. On reaching ninety, the family decided that she needed to have some kind of help during the day. A female companion who could keep her company when she was home and who would accompany her when she went out. So they turned to the government office that deals with these kinds of matters with a request for help to find an aide for her. The department sent a social worker to assess their mother’s general physical and mental wellbeing to see if she was eligible for government assistance. Arriving at the mother’s apartment, the social worker was invited in. After being offered a drink, she began to ask a series of questions. At one point, she asked the mother if she lives alone, to which the mother answered with an emphatic, “No!” The social worker, being perfectly aware that the mother lived by herself, was surprised at this answer. When she pointed out to the nonagenarian that her family had made it clear that she lived alone, she answered, “But, I don’t. Hashem is with me every single minute of the day!” And, on hearing her absolutely pure and sincere reply, the not-yet-religious social worker began to cry.
Sometimes we imagine that dwelling in the “refuge of the Most High” is something reserved for only the most righteous and saintly among us. Rashi is teaching us that this is not so. Living with Hashem is something that is attainable for everybody. That it is perfectly reasonable for all of us, from the least spiritually-sophisticated to the most, to truly believe that Hashem is with us at all times and in every place. Just like the mother, we all have the ability and the potential to include Hashem in our lives “every single minute of the day.”
So potent is our chapter that my Rebbe told me to recite it at least three times a day. Together with that, he told me that I should recite it at times when I feel any kind of danger around me. And, since then, that is what I do. And, by doing so, I truly feel protected.